How To Give Oral Sex

Blowjobs, this may be a touchy subject for many of us women and honestly apart from the few women to this exception many women are still struggling to figure out just how the act is meant to be done.

Going down on a guy sounds easy enough but many women don’t know what to do once they’re down there. Talking to your partner about what they want you to do may seem like a really tacky thing to do but honestly communication can be very powerful in situations like this. Being able to talk to your partner about the issue and maybe ask for some suggestions on what you could do to make the experience more enjoyable can really put you at ease and make him realise that you’re not one of those porn stars he watches on his computer but rather someone who he respects and I’m sure he’ll understand where you’re coming from.

For the majority of women who wouldn’t dare bring up this type of discussion with their partner, I’m going to let you take the easy way out this time and share some of the secrets which women have been keeping on the tricks to giving good head. I’m not going to lie but men do like being with a girl who knows what she’s doing, and that doesn’t mean just going down there and putting the whole thing in your mouth.

There are certain tricks which a woman can use to her advantage to make oral sex more enjoyable for the man and also more comfortable for her.

Making Sure You’re Comfortable
The one thing we know about oral sex is that we never know how long the task may take to complete so ensuring our own comfort is a must. Don’t kneel down on the pavement and then complain afterward that your knees are hurting! Find a comfortable place before you initiate anything. If you’re inside then maybe lay him down on the bed or sit him on the couch while you kneel on a cushion.

Take Your Time
You don’t want to rush into the act, the anticipation of what’s about to happen will be what gets him that little bit more excited so take your time. Start of with gentle kissing and touching, and then begin to take his pants off. By the time you actually get to his area he would be so worked up that chances are for those of you who don’t really enjoy giving oral sex that your job will be done fairly quickly!

Include The Balls
During oral sex the one thing which most women neglect is the mans balls. Now I don’t mean you have to put them in your mouth! I’m simply just saying that you should incorporate them into the fun that could be holding them in your hands, stroking them gently and for those of you who are a bit more adventurous maybe even consider giving them a little suck. There’s no harm in trying things out, if he likes it, I’m sure you’ll be able to pick up on the signs he’s giving you.

The Climax
Most women avoid oral sex because of the whole climax issue. Women are afraid to embrace the male orgasm or rather embrace it in their mouths. The one thing I want women to realise is that just because your man wants to come in your mouth this doesn’t mean that he wants you to swallow it too. Most men would be perfectly happy with you spitting out his juices once he’s done. For those of you who are totally freaked out about having is juices anywhere near your mouth then maybe you should try and introduce some other way for him to get pleasure out of his climax. Perhaps let him come all over your naked body, this seems to be a great alternate to using your mouth!

While these are just some helpful pointers to get you on your way, there are many ways in which you can enhance your performance. You can talk to your partner but there are also plenty of books out there to help women gain confidence and educate you on what to do.

If you have any more questions feel free to leave me a comment or message down below! I’m here to help and I would love to here what my readers have to say on the issue too!

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