How To Flirt With A Guy

Here are some tips to help you get noticed around that special one without coming off to strong.

• Firstly, be yourself
• Always try to have fun around your crush. If a guy sees that you are easy going and bubbly they will be at ease around you.
• Don’t be shy! You’ve got to do something to give him the message that you are into him. Guys like if they are the ones being approached.
• Wear clothes that you feel comfortable in. You should feel and look your best. There’s no point in trying to be someone you are not. You want him to fall for you don’t you?
• If you are sitting across the room from each other and you happen to look up and see him looking at you, don’t turn away. Make eye contact and smile! This is a sure fire way of getting the ball rolling.
• Practice everything in a mirror. There is nothing worse than trying moves on a guy that look totally retarded.
• Make sure your guy is worth it, and not just a hot body. You shouldn’t be fooled by good looks. Some of the hottest guys are in fact the biggest jerks.
• Try not to be too fidgety with your hair. Limit yourself to 1-2 flicks per hour otherwise you will just look like you are obsessed with yourself.
• Try not to make it too obvious that you are flirting, don’t try too hard to impress him. This can sometimes scare guys off so go slow and steady.
• When he is around his friends, only flirt with him, not other guys. If he sees you flirting with someone else, he will think you are just a tease.
• Take a break every now and then to leave him wanting more.
• Tell him you’d like to see him again if leaving, or mention that you’d like to try one of his hobbies.
• Listen carefully to what he says, and let him know you were listening through your conversation by commenting on what he says.
• Do your research. Try and find out information about sports or music he likes and then start conversations about the team’s progress on the weekend etc.
• Don’t ever lie to him. If you are sad and he picks up on it, let him know what is wrong, he’ll become more open and you will feel more comfortable around him.
• If you do hint about going to see a movie, invite some friends to go along so it’s not awkward.
• Make sure you are constant with your actions; if you just stop interacting with him for a few days he could think you’re not interested
• Try to make a joke when your with him, but don’t make it a stupid joke either. Guys always like a good laugh.
• Try to bump into him in the hallways and say “Oops I’m sorry!” and then touch him lightly on the shoulder or his arm.

If you’re looking for someone who will genuinely care about and respect you, go for shy guys. Chances are they’ve had fewer or perhaps never had girlfriends, and therefore in most cases will have developed a deeper appreciation and respect for women.

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Tags: Attraction, Boys, Females, Flirting, girls, Impression, Love, Lust, Males, Relationships

9 Responses to “How To Flirt With A Guy”

1. jamesgurl Says:
   October 30th, 2008

   cool idk stil lookin4 sumthin diff. tho but still helps a lil

2. Ashley Says:
   October 31st, 2008

   what type of advice were you looking for?

3. Sophia Says:
   November 2nd, 2008

   Thanks!
   I’m seriously going to use these!
   :]]

4. Marissa Says:
   November 10th, 2008

   I might try these to the crush i have on :]
   thank you for the advice
   but i am still looking for the ones i am looking for.

5. Trisha Says:
   November 10th, 2008

   I agree with Marissa, also known as my best friend!
   Thanks for the advice, this will definitely come in handy

6. Ashley Says:
   November 10th, 2008

   Great to hear we could help! If you need other advice on something let us know and we’ll personally be sure to help.

   P.S. Who’s the lucky guy?

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   November 20th, 2008

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   November 20th, 2008

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9. Sgurl76 Says:
   January 22nd, 2009

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